I've been a psychotherapist working mostly with couples for over 30 years. In that time I've had a chance to see a lot of variations on the "couples theme." This blog is an opportunity for me to share some of the things I've learned about what works for couples and what doesn't. The things I'll share are the product of not only my experience with couples but also my own personality, temperament and inclinations. So, please read what I've written from that perspective.